“Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year.”
— Ralph Waldo Emerson
It has been quite a while since I’ve made a post on this site, but I have not forgotten about it. Stepping away for a minute, although unintentional, gave me the opportunity to learn more about myself and to reaffirm my purpose for creating this blog in the first place. I started this site with the intention of uplifting others. My goal was and continues to be to inspire others to be the best versions of themselves. With each post, I aim to spread love and light to those who are open and willing to receive it. As I read through the older posts, I feel as though my past year of writing provides a solid foundation for me to expand upon in 2014 with greater focus and purpose.
Looking back on 2013, I am grateful for the many expressions of love that I witnessed. The past year’s events have inspired me to more deeply share the divine love within and to live in purpose every NOW moment. Along with some of the reflective questions that I wrote in my End of the Year – 2012 post, some questions that I ask myself as the new year begins are:
How can I be of greater service to the world? In what ways, can I give and show support to another? How can I authentically express the divine love that I am?
In this new year, earnestly intend to give love and be love. Set out to be of service not for fame or reward, but with the understanding that the value is in the giving. Aspire to spread love to all of creation with every thought, word and action. In moments where you may fall short of your intention, forgive yourself and refocus on love. And if you feel as though your efforts are insignificant or not enough, understand that your positive energy always has an effect – even if you cannot recognize it.
For the past several years, I’ve started a practice of claiming that the new year will be the best year of my life so far. As I speak that into existence for myself, I wish the same for you. May your year be filled with an abundance of love, joy, and peace. Happy New Year!
“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”
― Eleanor Roosevelt
Today is the last day of 2012 and what a year it has been! I hope this has been a good year for all that are reading this. It is often at this time of the year that things slow down. Semesters end, people take vacations from work, and it gives us an opportunity to reflect on the year and to see how things have changed from this time the year before. During this period of holiday downtime, as a part of my reflection I like to ask myself questions such as:
What can I be grateful for from this year? What exciting things have come into my life? What did I learn? How have I grown?
I often find that I remember a lot of special moments and small lessons that I haven’t thought about since they happened. This type of reflection helps me to put things into perspective and to make sure that I am continuing to progress and grow into the person that I desire to be.
Often around this time of year, many people make resolutions and goals to carry into the new year. I think it is helpful to do that at this time because each year is kind of like a new start. It is a fresh beginning and another 12 months to get closer to your dreams and to be the person that you’ve always imagined.
In order to move forward and progress in the direction of our dreams, we have to be willing to let go of those things that do not serve us in the highest way. The old habits, patterns, addictions, pain, and so on are the things that hold us back from being our full selves and from making those leaps and bounds forward. Along with the previous questions, I also like to ask myself:
What can I let go of this year? What limiting thoughts and beliefs am I holding onto? What things are holding me back?
This was a year of a lot of firsts for me. I traveled to Europe for the first time, I spent my first summer away from home working and living in Pittsburgh, I recorded a music project of six songs in a professional recording studio for the first time, and I made the Dean’s list for the first time in my college career. Each of these experiences also brought with them many other small feats and first-time achievements. In every way, I was able to step outside of my comfort zone, face some fears, and learn a lot about myself.
If there is one thing that I have learned this year, it is that dreams really do come true. I’ve achieved goals many times before in my life but this year really helped me to see that anything is possible. Your dreams are real. And everything that you want, wants you. But a dream can’t come true without a believer. That’s where you come in. BELIEVE IN YOUR DREAMS. Believe in yourself. Do your part and be ready to receive your dreams when the time is right.
All of the big dreamers know that their dreams are out there beyond their comfort zone. Those dreams rest in a space of uncertainty that’s just outside of our grasps. But all dreamers also know that they can make their dreams a reality.
For whatever your goals might be for 2013, visualize the best outcome imaginable. Detach from it and allow for it to manifest as it will. Do what you can to make your dreams a reality. And hold onto to your belief with unwavering faith. With a clear mind, consistent effort, and an openness to all possibilities, all dreams can come true. So whether you’re trying to get into law school or get an internship, start a company or start a car that you can call your own, let go of some fears or let go of some extra pounds, know that this year will bring many new opportunities and know that you can achieve whatever desires are placed in your heart.
I like to end each of my years by affirming that the next year will be even better than the one before it. I invite you to do the same. So I claim for myself that 2013 will be the best year of my life, so far!
Best wishes to you all and Happy New Year!